“A very long time in the past, you talked about you’d by no means shaved or waxed your bikini line,” wrote a reader named Emma. “Might you elaborate on why? I’ve at all times puzzled!” Properly, I’m joyful to share…
My reply is basically easy: I’ve delicate pores and skin, and I’m a wuss, haha. I don’t wish to go right into a waxing place and get my hair ripped out; it sounds so painful, omg. Plus, I really feel high quality having hair there, and my feeling is that if I’m going to mattress with somebody, I would like us each to really feel so excited and heat and joyful and shut that we’re high quality with regardless of the precise hair scenario is on both of our our bodies. One caveat: I don’t have a variety of hair, and I believe my reply could be totally different if I had extra rising exterior my swimsuit space.
Additionally, once I was getting again onto the relationship scene, my sister really useful this bikini trimmer. I attempted it and preferred it, and now I take advantage of it each time I’m within the temper — in all probability each couple months — to have much less hair, without having to totally shave or wax. It’s fully painless and type of enjoyable to mess around with.
Ideas? So curious to listen to what you do and the way you are feeling about it! Each physique is totally different, and folks have all kinds of preferences and experiences. As with all physique/intercourse/parenting/relationships/life questions, “Good for her, not for me.” xoxo
P.S. Twist: I just like the phrase “moist”, and did you’ve gotten intercourse in your wedding ceremony evening? Additionally, 5 methods to speak to youngsters about consent, and why I repeatedly discuss durations with my sons.
(Pictures from Oddobody.)
